Beauty for ashes
To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified.
Ashes are what is left when something precious has burned away. God does not ignore the ashes. He exchanges them.
Ask Him today for the oil of joy in place of mourning, one small step at a time.